Cougars are a special breed; they are confident, wealthy women who have a high sex drive and are not ashamed to get it on with boys half their age. It takes guts and gumption to do that, it must be admitted. Cougar with young man equals sparks flying in all directions. Free cougar dating is generally through a free cougar dating app. If you want to have success with cougar dating online free of cost, read on for the ride of your life.
Create an awesome profile
This is where it all begins and it is essential that you get it right the first time around. There is no chance if you fuck it up and misrepresent yourself because cougars do not come back for seconds. Your profile is a reflection of both your personality and your looks, and this combination must be just right. You need to start with a good picture of yourself, one that people say you look great in. No matter if you spend most of your waking hours at the gym, grunting like an animal, you should refrain from posting shirtless pictures except for those pictures where you are at a pool party or a beach. It makes you appear as a narcissist to women who will not really appreciate the fact that you take off your shirt at the drop of a hat. If you really must have a shirtless picture, keep it down to just one, and supplement it with some other good pictures where you are clothed. Leave pets out of profile pictures, unless they happen to be a vicious dog. If you have to get a haircut and sort out your appearance, please do so, because you are eventually going to meet women in person.
Online dating sites will always ask you for details like your age, height, weight and so on. Answer these questions honestly. You will also be asked if you want a relationship or a fling, and in my opinion, you should choose a relationship (you can always change your mind later on with nobody the wiser). There are however some sites which exist only for sex and nothing beyond that, and here you will not be asked too many questions. However, if you come across as a sex maniac, I pity your chances. Yes, sure some girls are sluts, but most will not put your dick in their mouth, know what I mean? Basically, you have two options; you can pretend to be laid back, or you can let your bad boy image shine, which also has its fair share of admirers. Women do like the motorcycle riding dude in a leather jacket and boots.
Your needs/their needs
If you say that you are interested, but not in a relationship, you will tend to scare away many a cougar who will think that you are just there to fulfill your boyhood fantasies of sleeping with older women with absolutely no other emotional attachment or involvement. You have to approach cougars with the attitude that you are in for the ride and are willing to spend time with them to get to know each other better. Women respond better to men who appear to be committed. You should not bombard a potential catch with numerous messages, keep it to an introductory message and cast your net wide, pinging several cougars that catch your eye. You never know where you will get lucky.
Do not appear as desperate
If you really like a cougar and have sent her a message, wait till she gets back to you. Do not panic and keep bombarding her with an endless stream of online messages. This will make you look desperate for action and you will come across as a bit of a loser. Cougars lead busy lives and if she is interested in you, she will respond in due time.
Most of the Cougars on online dating sites receive a huge number of messages from potential admirers, sometimes numbering into the hundreds. In order to stand out, your message must really be exceptional. The shock and awe technique has worked quite well for me in the past. Be different and original and do not hesitate to speak your mind. But certainly, do not tell her that you would like to fuck her brains out (though that has worked on occasions).
These are the basic rules of online seduction. Once you have had a chat with your cougar, try to take the relationship offline as soon as possible, because cougars can be fickle minded and you definitely would want to get in her pants before she decides to move on. Use every trick in the book and if matters come to that, let her ride you as well.