If you are a young man, looking to date a cougar, you should get on to a cougar dating app and by that I mean the best cougar dating app you can afford. Free cougar dating apps are also fine, but you have to remember that they will have limited features and you will have to rely on the strength and power of your words to convince a sugar momma to pick you as her partner. Let us see what it takes to create an effective cougar dating profile on a cougar app.
You need to create a nickname that the average cougar will like and remember. Everyone you interact with on that app will associate that nickname with you, so it should ideally be a reflection of the person you are or what you like. If you, on the grounds of anonymity, don’t want to put up a real name, fine, just make it interesting and not gross. Mentions of sexual acts or other crass nicknames do not do well.
This comes just below the nickname and it is a wonderful place and opportunity to get someone intrigued and check your profile. It is the place to let your creative juices flow, and come up with a truly unique one-liner that blows people away. Remember that an empty tagline also signifies a probable empty head, and a cougar would not associate herself with an airhead. If you lack in inspiration, maybe some of your favorite song lyrics can do the job for you.
The profile quality
Your profile has to be good enough to grab attention and at the same time not be a long essay. You have to remember that in this day and age, attention spans are very short, and all you have is maybe 10-15 seconds to make an impact. Your profile should be around three paragraphs long, and you can add the interesting stuff later, once you have your audience hooked.
The big picture
Most of the cougar dating apps you have out there have a swiping technology to seek out matches based on the profile picture. Cougars will be on the prowl for handsome and appealing cubs. Having a blank photo will make people disinterested in your profile, no matter how exciting that may be. You do not have to be a very photogenic person. Select a picture that has you smiling and ensure that you are not underdressed. Cougars do not like cubs coming on to them strongly and suggestively, at least not on initial contact. That would make you look like a desperate young man who has not seen action in a long, long, time. Ensure that your photo shows the kind of person you generally are in real life and don’t post those mirror selfies.
This cannot be emphasized on more. Everyone touches up their profiles, but do not describe yourself as built like a quarterback, when you look like a little league coach. Your cougar date will be able to tell the difference from miles away and that is how far she is going to stay away as well. Starting any relationship with a lie is a bad idea, do not do it because it does not get you any bonus points. Being honest is always the best option, and it ensures that the cougar you attract is someone who has the same values and interests that you do. This makes for good compatibility and augers well for long-term stability in the relationship.
You can get it if you want it
If you have the firm belief that you will be able to attract sexy older women and have a good time with them, you need to follow the above basics for your profile, which will do all the initial talking for you and set the ground for dates and hookups. You should not be shy on your profile and should state your desires. If you are looking for a fling with a cougar, mention it. If you’re out there for a long-term relationship, mention that too. Confidence is extremely desirable and sexy, so do not shy away from being yourself on cougar dating apps. Also, state what kind of person you are looking for so the right matches keep coming your way and you always have a full plate of sexy cougars to feast on!